Monday, August 21, 2006

Passion about life

Columbine. No one hears that name without knowing what happened. How could we not? How could anyone forget the event that told parents that their children weren't "safe" anymore when they went off to school. Personally it makes my blood boil. It could've been prevented you know. Most people just ignore me when I get this far. " Ahh, but now you're into wishful thinking." I can't tell you how many times I've heard that. But it doesn't make it less true. It doesn't change reality. There is a story behind columbine, there is ALWAYS a story. How many people actually know it?
The boys in question, the ones who chattered so many lives, we ordinary boys. They were boys who were hurt. Repeatedly. We've all been in that place. The cool kids don't like you, for whatever reason, so no one will talk to you because they want to be able to pretend that the cool kids like them. When in fact they don't. Watch Frank Peretti's Hangman's Curse. Crystal and Ian are those kids. The difference lies in how the situation is handled.
So now we come to my proposal. If even 1 person had reached out to those boys then maybe things wouldn't have turned out the same way. If someone had tried to help them, love them, accept them as they were. And tried to befriend them. Ahh the power of love. It is like a healing balm that washes the soul and helps to drive out the darkness. It tells us that when the night turns to morning, everything will be alright.
But no one did. That is the problem. Everyone goes about in their lives ignoring everyone else because they're in too much pain to care. They tell themselves it's not their problem and that they shouldn't get involved. But they should. If more people started caring about other people and less about themselves then we would live in a different world. Where things like this would happen less and less. . . . Who knows it might even save lives.
No one thinks about the people that God puts in their way most of the time. Like they can't even see them. But those people may be hurting in ways you might not know, and maybe just maybe a smile from you or a kind word. It might make all the difference. Because it might give them the strength to keep going. To live. To try. Because people like them need hope. And people like us should be giving it. So why aren't we? Don't wait for tomorrow. It may never come. Reach out today and save a life one act of kindness at a time. Who knows. It might be what you're remembered for after you've died. Because after all, what is more important? What you're going through? Or that persons life? It starts with a decision and we make it daily. So come on. What's stopping you?

3 comments:

Laedelas Greenleaf said...

THANK YOU, Rae! Too many people heard about Columbine, echoed the sentiments you expressed here, and then forgot about it when they graduated from High School. So when their friends (or siblings) reach out to those who don't "fit in" and won't bend to arbitrary and stupid social rules, they get persnickety and mean. HELLO!! So what if I find someone who wants companionship and become a companion? Isn't that part of humanity? Grr. It makes me mad, too. Your thinking is anything but wishful, dear. It's completely Christ-like, and more people need to act on such thinking. Thanks for the reminder :-)

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Laedelas Greenleaf said...

By the way, I love the link to my blog :-) Can I link to yours?

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Chanel Blanc said...

Thank You! You are completely right! And that sort of becomes obvious when I start talking to people who actually LIKE things the way they are!
The world could use more people like you!
I'm glad you liked the link! ^_^ And you may absolutely link to me! I would consider it an honor!
Have a GREAT WEEKWEND!! (*sob* School starts Mon.!)
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